Soft Life Requires Sense. Let’s Relearn Money.

Soft Life Requires Sense. Let’s Relearn Money.

According to a 2023 EFInA (Enhancing Financial Innovation & Access) report, only 33% of Nigerian adults are financially literate, and just 17% have an investment account.

Across Africa, and particularly in Nigeria, households have historically fallen into two categories when it comes to financial upbringing. Some families, often with parents who were financially literate or had some degree of economic stability, raised their children to understand the value of money, saving, budgeting, investing. These children were taught early that money is a servant, not a master.

But for a large number of Nigerians, the story was different. Money wasn’t discussed. Or when it was, it came wrapped in tension, fear, or outright silence. Why? Because it was in short supply. In such households, money became synonymous with anxiety, the thing that was never enough, the source of quarrels, and the constant reason for "no."

That’s a massive gap but it also represents a massive opportunity. Money is a tool, one that builds futures, opens doors, and funds dreams. But for many Nigerians, particularly those who grew up in homes where money was scarce, this tool has felt more like a threat than a gift.

Growing up with that kind of scarcity often creates a deeply emotional, and sometimes dysfunctional, relationship with money. Adults who were raised in such environments may struggle with:

  • Spending impulsively as a way to feel in control of a resource they were once denied.
     
  • Avoiding financial planning because it feels overwhelming or inaccessible.
     
  • Living from paycheck to paycheck, not from lack of income, but lack of structure.
     
  • Distrust or fear of investing, especially in long-term opportunities.
     

Money is a Knowledge Gap

The first step to financial transformation is awareness. You must first acknowledge where you are. If money has always felt like a mystery or an enemy, it’s not because you’re incapable, it’s likely because no one ever taught you differently.

“Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver.” — Ayn Rand

Like any tool, money requires understanding. The good news? Financial intelligence is not reserved for a few. It can be learned. And your background does not have to be your future.

Step 1: Learn What Money Is And Isn’t

According to the World Bank, people who receive financial education are 25% more likely to begin saving and 15% more likely to invest. Knowledge breeds confidence, and confidence fuels better decisions.

Money isn’t just paper or numbers in a bank account. It’s a medium of exchange. It’s a store of value. It’s a vehicle for opportunity. And it can be harnessed. To do that, start by unlearning unhealthy beliefs and replacing them with empowering truths. Read books. Follow credible financial educators. Ask questions.

Step 2: Start Where You Are But Start!

According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics, real estate contributed 6.55% to Nigeria’s GDP in Q1 2024, signaling its relevance as a growing sector even in uncertain economic times.

You don’t need to have millions to start making wise money moves. You just need to begin. And real estate, for instance, is one of the most tangible and trusted paths for first-time investors, especially those seeking stability and legacy.

Why real estate?

  • It’s a physical asset you can see and touch.
     
  • It historically appreciates over time.
     
  • It offers passive income opportunities (rent, leasing, resale).
     
  • It allows for fractional ownership, meaning you don’t need millions to get started.

Step 3: Set a Goal

Without a goal, saving becomes frustrating. Investing feels vague. A goal gives direction to your financial journey. Are you saving to buy land? To secure your child’s education? To retire early? Define it. Then build toward it. Make your money serve that purpose.

Step 4: Pass It On

One of the greatest wins of financial healing is the ability to break generational cycles. Once you’ve begun to reshape your relationship with money, pass it on. Teach your children. Talk about money openly. Help them understand that money is not a source of shame, but a tool of empowerment.

You Can Rewire Your Financial DNA

You may not have grown up understanding money, but you can grow into a person who does. You can rewrite your financial narrative. You can invest. You can build. You can leave a legacy. Don’t let your upbringing define your financial future, let your decisions do that.

If you’re ready to start your journey, HCapital is here to guide you.

We believe that trustworthy, tangible, transparent investing especially in real estate is how everyday people build wealth.

Because money doesn’t have to be your fear. It can be your freedom.

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